Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Why are others successful and happy in their lives
Everyday we have choices to make, each day we make decisions that effect our lives and yet many people never consider the consequences of their actions. I'm sure you have asked yourself the question; why do other people always seem to succeed while I continue to stay in the same old routine and rut? Why has success eluded me? When is it going to be my turn? So my question to you is "if you don't like where you are in your life now, why don't you change it?" Did you know that where you are in your life right now is a direct result of every decision you have made up to this point. Did you also know that by simply changing the way you make decisions, by not getting emotionally involved and looking and the consequences of our actions or in actions, will change your life. Whether personally or professionally the choices you make effect where you will go in this world and what you will have. You can decide whether or not you are going to be happy or sad, rich or poor, successful or not. Understand that everyone has problems, no matter what their standing or position in life. All the people around you have problems, some may not be as complex as others but everyone has them. The difference between the people that are happy or successful and those that are not, is that successful people understand one very important concept that others do not. That concept is; it's not what happens to you in this world , it's what you do about it that matters most. If your not experiencing success in your life whether personally or professionally then you need to change the decisions you have have made and how you have made them. Let me give you a definition of insanity - doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Now let me give you an example of how that translates to life. If you are the kind of employee that get by on doing as little as possible and you keep getting passed up for promotions, then you qualify for the definition given above. If you want to get further in the company you work for then you need to become more valuable to your company. That means going above and beyond the expectation of your job. Be the first one at work, do more when your at work, become an expert on the products or services your company provides, and be reliable and dependable when given tasks or assignments. I hope to some degree that this will help some of you if not all of you reading it. Don't just make today a good day, make it a great day................If you need more than just my monthly blogs then check out my web site for my success series of books at johntubiolo.com
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